When you’re in the throes of raising a family, retirement can feel like a lifetime away. Between childcare, school expenses, and an endless list of home improvement projects, it’s easy to push long-term goals to the back burner. But no matter your age or stage of life, it’s important to keep retirement savings in focus because catching up later is much harder to achieve.
At some point, every one of us will want to transition from earning money at work to letting our money work for us. That’s what retirement really is — the point when the assets you’ve saved start replacing the paycheck you no longer earn. The trick is learning how to balance saving for tomorrow with living for today.
Define What Retirement Means for You
One of the biggest challenges younger people face when planning for retirement is that it feels so far away from the present. In other words, younger people can’t identify with what their older selves may be like when it’s time to retire. A helpful way to address this is visualizing what retirement actually looks like for you and your family. For some people, it means leaving the workforce entirely; for others, it’s a new chapter filled with part-time work, travel, volunteering, or launching a passion project.
Your vision for that next phase of life helps guide how much you’ll need to save and makes the goal feel more personal and attainable. When you know what you’re working toward, saving for retirement starts to feel more worthwhile, becoming less of an abstract “someday” idea and more of a motivating family goal.
Start Early
Once you’ve identified retirement as one of your big life goals, the key is to begin saving toward it as soon as possible. Time is your greatest ally; even small amounts invested early can compound into something meaningful down the road. You want to have a savings goal that is not just a placeholder on your priority list, but a regular part of your thought process and planning.
Consistency is often more powerful than size when it comes to savings. For instance, setting up automatic transfers helps you build momentum without having to think about it each month. The habit matters more than the dollar amount at first. As your income grows, you can gradually increase contributions without a big shock to your budget.
Keep It Flexible
At the same time, saving for retirement doesn’t mean locking up every dollar until you’re 59½+. It’s about building a strategy that supports both your long-term security and your family’s current priorities. It’s about creating options for yourself if life throws you a curveball.
For example, you might save for retirement in a 401(k) or IRA, but also keep funds in savings or other investments that you can access more easily. Life with kids brings plenty of surprises — from broken appliances to unexpected medical bills to that unplanned travel soccer team. Flexibility is crucial, so having savings in different “buckets” allows you to adjust without feeling like you’ve failed your retirement plan. And the good news is that you get to use all your assets in retirement, not just those in “retirement” accounts.
Think Beyond the 401(k)
Most of us have heard the advice to “max out your 401(k).” That’s not necessarily bad advice so long as it doesn’t stretch your family too thin. But for many young families, it may not be the best move right now.
If your immediate goal is buying a home, investing in/launching a business, or covering big family expenses, channeling every dollar into your 401(k) might not make the most sense. A more balanced approach can keep you on track for both short- and long-term success.
Each type of account — checking, savings, brokerage, 401(k), or Roth IRA — has different strengths and trade-offs. Some offer tax advantages, others more flexibility. For instance, a 401(k) may come with a valuable employer match (a great benefit if you can capture it), but those funds can be hard to access without penalties before 59½.
You certainly don’t want to find yourself maxing out your 401(k) and then incurring and building credit card debt as a result. The market won’t be able to deliver returns to outpace the interest you incur as a result of that.
By balancing your long-term savings with more liquid options, you can handle near-term goals without derailing your future. A solid plan works for your family’s needs today.
Personalized Advice Goes a Long Way
With so many moving parts, it’s easy to wonder: Am I saving in the right places? The truth is, there’s no one-size-fits-all solution for retirement planning. The most important thing you can do is to have a thoughtful strategy in place (versus just hoping for the best).
A skilled financial advisor can help you build a plan that fits your actual life and comfort level. They can help ensure your money isn’t sitting idle but working efficiently toward your goals. A good advisor will also help you prioritize: deciding how to balance paying off debt, funding college savings, and building your retirement nest egg without feeling stretched too thin.
Look for an advisor who listens first, understands your family’s values, helps you set achievable milestones, and checks in regularly as your life changes. Whether it’s welcoming another child, buying a home, or changing jobs, your financial plan should grow and evolve right alongside your family.
By balancing flexibility with consistency and leaning on professional guidance when you need it, you can take care of your family today and still set yourself up for a secure retirement in the future.
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Gary Blum is a Registered Representative and Financial Advisor of Park Avenue Securities LLC (PAS). Securities products and advisory services offered through PAS, member FINRA, SIPC. Financial Representative of The Guardian Life Insurance Company of America® (Guardian), New York, NY. PAS is a wholly owned subsidiary of Guardian. Strategies for Wealth is not an affiliate or subsidiary of PAS or Guardian. Not practicing CPA for Guardian or its subsidiaries or affiliates. CA Insurance License # 0M10186.
